Awkward Moments No Woman Wants In a Relationship

"Awkward Moments No Woman Wants In a Relationship"

You're in a relationship with a man, maybe for about 2-3 months or so and nothing seem to be heading in the direction you would have expected, which worries you a lot. And because of this, you decided to take the bold step by asking HIM the big question "where are we headed? "

Then surprisingly, your MAN tells you that he cares about you... BUT...he needs "more time." Or any number of reasonable or unreasonable excuses as to why he can't answer your questions or make a commitment to you RIGHT NOW.

And this hurts you so much as all you wanted was to know where the relationship was heading!. You weren't trying to hassle him or force him to make a decision on the spot. You just wanted to know where you stand as a couple.

Now YOU'RE angry, HE'S angry, and you regret ever having brought it up and all this now scares you.

THE TRUTH IS:

Men and women have different timelines when it comes to commitments in relationships. A woman may think "it's time" for a man to commit after a certain number of months. But it's not necessarily the same way a man thinks.

A man decides he wants to be with YOU and ONLY YOU based on how you make him FEEL. Whether it's been 2 weeks, 2 months, or 2 years. It doesn't matter. So focusing on how to make a man feel a lot comfortable with you seem like a good deal for me.

And if you ever feel that nothing you do ever seem to work with your man... Girl you may want to reconsider your options.

Yes! I said so because one major reason a man would lock himself up from receiving or to acknowledge your efforts in such situation is because HE'S NOT READY OR DOESN'T WANT YOU IN THE LONG TERM BUT DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO BREAK THE NEWS TO YOU.

Believers Introduce themselves in the bible:

Believers Introduce themselves in the bible:

Paul, a servant (slave) of Jesus Christ (Rom 1:1)
James, a servant of God and of the Lord Jesus Christ (Jam1:1)
Simon Peter, a servant and apostle of Jesus Christ (2Pet 1:1)
Jude, a servant of Jesus Christ (Jud 1:1)

Notice how these brethren Introduced themselves, with the simplicity that is in Christ; no titles, no official designations, no church addresses. Yet they succeeded in spreading the gospel all over the world and ultimately died for the same gospel haven experienced the true power of resurection.

Now in Nigeria, Men of God introduce themselves thus:

Bishop Dr.............(General Overseer of...)
Apostle Prophet....(Senior Pastor.........)
General, Commandant...............(GOC......)
Wiseman, Visioneer, Archbishop Etc

This is how our MEN of God are introduced. Try and miss their titles during introduction, and u are sorry?
Amazingly they have not even succeeded in spreading the gospel effectively over a state, let alone the entire nation Nigeria. Not willing to die for the gospel like me, they centre all their crusades in already christian south running from the blaze of terror in a fertile muslim north. They do not suffer any loss for the gospel, instead they profit hugely from it making NAMES for themselves.

And my prayer is this: Dear Lord, teach me to understand the simplicity that is in Christ. I really want to learn from the examples of the apostles of old