"Awkward Moments No Woman Wants In a Relationship"
You're in a relationship with a man, maybe for about 2-3 months or so and nothing seem to be heading in the direction you would have expected, which worries you a lot. And because of this, you decided to take the bold step by asking HIM the big question "where are we headed? "
Then surprisingly, your MAN tells you that he cares about you... BUT...he needs "more time." Or any number of reasonable or unreasonable excuses as to why he can't answer your questions or make a commitment to you RIGHT NOW.
And this hurts you so much as all you wanted was to know where the relationship was heading!. You weren't trying to hassle him or force him to make a decision on the spot. You just wanted to know where you stand as a couple.
Now YOU'RE angry, HE'S angry, and you regret ever having brought it up and all this now scares you.
THE TRUTH IS:
Men and women have different timelines when it comes to commitments in relationships. A woman may think "it's time" for a man to commit after a certain number of months. But it's not necessarily the same way a man thinks.
A man decides he wants to be with YOU and ONLY YOU based on how you make him FEEL. Whether it's been 2 weeks, 2 months, or 2 years. It doesn't matter. So focusing on how to make a man feel a lot comfortable with you seem like a good deal for me.
And if you ever feel that nothing you do ever seem to work with your man... Girl you may want to reconsider your options.
Yes! I said so because one major reason a man would lock himself up from receiving or to acknowledge your efforts in such situation is because HE'S NOT READY OR DOESN'T WANT YOU IN THE LONG TERM BUT DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO BREAK THE NEWS TO YOU.
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